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We were togthr for over 3years . It’s more than a week since she left me . M so lost . Help me.
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Anytime someone breaks up with someone they don’t usually do it over a stupid reason. Maybe your ex is not brave enough to tell you the real reason why she broke up with you. I know you feel lost and you still love her but give it a bit more time and see how this turns out. Maybe she will realize that she made a mistake. Or maybe she is no longer in love with you. And if you don’t hear from her in a couple of weeks then you’ll know where you stand. But in the meantime don’t call her. Give her enough space so she finds out on her own what she really wants. You should go out with your friends and try to keep busy.
give her time shell be back, if not fight for her or let it go thats up to you
Look at your carrier. Set her free.. if she's urs she'l come back
tell her you still love her
whats the stupid reason? if its sleeping with another girl, then, naw….thats not stupid at all
First off you need to chill.
A 3 year relationship can’t easily be broken over a stupid reason, whatever that reason might be. You just need to give her some more time to think and to reflect. If you really love her, you won’t mind waiting, especially since it was a stupid reason, there might be something else that is worrying her. Like, for instance, there might be some kind of fear of commitment? Just wait, when the time comes, talk to her about it and figure things out, but make sure you’re both ready to talk, don’t force it or else you might not get the answers you need
Good luck
The break up is so recent that your wounds are still open. You need to realise that you are in the equivalent of relationship grief and the first stage is denial. Sounds about right doesn’t it.
You need to be strong, distract yourself with activities or hanging out with friends. Give yourself some time to heal and get over her.
The pain will go away eventually, you just need to try and not do anything too strange. If she comes back, good luck with that. But don’t sit around waiting for that to happen.
Always walk forwards with your chin held high, never walk backwards.
I would like to know the reason why she dumped you but if u want answer this way then u really need to wait, if she comes back she is yours & if not then she is not. It happens when someone whom u love leaves u, u feel lost. but life does not stop, so move on. if u love her truly she will definitely come back herself. believe me she will.
Don’t know if I can help you, just will take time but just know that your not alone out there with being dumped for something really stupid. I want my ex back also, I moved to another state to be with her and after 4 months she broke up with me again. We have known each other for almost 10 years, we were together for 6 months and she left me to go back to her ex, and when he dumped her, she wanted me back about a year later. But she was living in Florida, so quit my job, rented my house out, sold my car to go down there and be with her. Lasted 4 months and booted me out because I didn’t get a chance to do laundry. Had some money saved up but couldn’t find a job, so she broke up with and gave me 7 days to get out of our place. Said fine to at least save the friendship so now, I had to move back, trying to find a job, living with my parents again with no car, no house, no money. But for some stupid reason I really really do love that woman and still want her back.
So as you can tell I can’t help you any but rest assured, your not alone out there. Right now nothing anyone says or does will help you feel better right now. but the hurt will fade after a while. Like I said, just takes time.
Good luck.