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We dated for 1 year and a half. I’ve been out of school for a week, and diagnosed with depression. But I have to go back tomorrow and both are going to be there. I feel sick to my stomach just thinking about it. Please. any advice? Im really nervous and I don’t want to break down and start crying in class.
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Instead of feeling sad, how about getting mad at the way you were treated by him?
It’s normal to feel the way you do, and – you know what? Even if you do break down and cry, well, you just go the bathroom and wash your face and go on about your business.
Your classmates will support you, I bet, and he’ll look like the heel he is. In the interim, hold your head high.
Tears are only a sign of grieving, and nothing to be ashamed of.
It will pass, and you will get over it. Believe me, one day you will look back and wonder what you ever saw in him!
Take care.
You are child of God, and He loves you.
JERK!
Act like you couldn’t care less. Just happy and don’t speak negatively of them. People will see what is going on and talk on their own. As long as you don’t say anything negatively, it will reflect on them and make you look good.
Just go to school like nothing happen =]
ignore him and talk to someone about your problems, like a counselor.
just be mature about it..it probably wasn’t meant for you to be together..lesson learned..
the best thing u can do is dont look at him or her, and act like u dont care, especially at school and work, thats what i do, but the more people who know ur upset the worse it will be because then they will want to talk about it, just pay attention to school right now.
Just smile at him and her. Have eye contact too! The more you can fake being ok with it the faster you really wil be!
Hang around another guys and make him jealous.
Babygirl i want you to go into your closet and find the nicest outfit you have. I want you to doll yourself up and when you go to school carry yourself in a way that will have everyone looking. Don’t be sad or blue because it is his lost and act like everyone would be lucky to be with you.
honey… what an asshole, move on, your only giving him the pleasure of “winning” by letting it hit you so hard… and everyone gets depressed, its part of life, gotta turn the light back on and take a walk on the sunny side of the street.. ignore him and flirt with other guys
Hold your head up high. Ignore him! You will find someone who will treat you better. You never know there might already be someone interested in you.
The best advice i can give is to smile. DO NOT let him see you cry or sad. Wait till your home to do that. Smile cuz he’s her problem now not yours. Don’t give him the satisfaction of having the power to still hurt you, even if he does still have the power. You’ll get over him and go on to find another loser!! Good luck girl!
You have to be strong! I remember having to go through the same thing. I promise it will get easier everyday. You will be anxious until the first time you see them. Don’t avoid it. Head it face on and get it over with. You need to appear that this did not break you and you are better off (which you are!) You shouldn’t care about him or his new girl. If he or she does anything to push it in your face, they are both jerks anyway. They should be respectful of you. Good luck!
Go to school and act like your self, if him or the other girl says any thing to you ask them how she likes you sloppy seconds??