My best friend’s boyfriend dumped her for me… What should i do?

My best friend's boyfriend dumped her for me… What should i do?
She frickin mad at me…and he's frickin in luv with me….advice and like quick…please!!!

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21 Responses to “My best friend’s boyfriend dumped her for me… What should i do?”

  1. Mat Says :

    Alot depends on how long ago your friend and this guy were going out – - if it was 2 years ago then go for it. But if you start going out with him 2 hours after they split THAT is bad.

    You never told us why you wanted to take her bf sooooo…… why?

  2. issydanny Says :

    You should say whatever you would say if she wasn't your friend, because if she was your friend she wouldn't mind

  3. f0xh0und Says :

    tell him to fvck off….ever heard of the saying bros before hoes? it works both ways.

  4. BLITZED Says :

    eh run like hell

  5. No, you don't think straight Says :

    Tell her sorry but you cant change the way he feels and you really wish there was a way for all three to be happy! Just talk to her and try to have her understand. Unless she's an ignorant b**** she'll understand!

  6. muiye2 Says :

    Your the one who made him dump her or thats what it sounds like. You probably convinced him you liked him too or he would have never dumped her. Besides friends are more important then boys/girls you like.

  7. jodiekay317 Says :

    Follow your heart…sorry, but we can't tell you what to do.

  8. AD Sabry Says :

    just run from this relationship
    if he dumped her for u he will dump u for another honey
    " once cheater is always cheater"

  9. Muse Says :

    Well first of all you need to figure out how you feel about him… You have to really be nice to your friend, even if she's a b**** to you, remember that she's been hurt. Just stick with the truth, its a lot less sticky than a lie, and you don't want to get yourself into a mess.

  10. GinaBby Says :

    if you dont like him tell her you dont and that you'll never do anything to hurt her .

  11. bou b Says :

    its not your fault he wants her best friend
    and she's being childish for her to be mad at that tell her he's not worth it and she should build a bridge and get over it

  12. Nightowl56 Says :

    Is she your bf or not? He's a dog, you willing to lose your bf over a player? He's not in love with you, you're just next on his list and after he has you he'll use your friendship with her as the excuse to dump you too. Leave it alone.

  13. D B Says :

    makeout with him. lol.

  14. *BAY AREA* CALiFAz Says :

    if you really care about your friend, don't get with the guy

  15. ??GreenEyes?? Says :

    men come and go and good friends last forever.
    If he did it to her it shows you what kind of guy he is.
    I say choose the friend and both of you leave the guy alone and he'll get what he deserves

  16. Eliza Says :

    Chances are you're going to lose one of them because of this. Try to talk to whoever would be more understanding about how you feel. If you think they might forgive you, try to work from there.

  17. -Mike- Says :

    Kick him in his twat and tell him to get lost bros before hoes. OR in your case Chicks before Dicks.

  18. Lily<33 Says :

    she shouldnt be mad at u and he shouldnt be in love with you!!!!! ugh i've been down this many times before:\\
    the best thing for uu to do is both uu and urr freind forget about that guy, talk, and save urr friendship!! friendships ALWAYS last longer than relationships!!

  19. Matty B Says :

    f*ck it have a threesome….everyone wins

  20. peace?happiness Says :

    let him down easy boyfriends are temporary but bffs are forever!
    tell your friend you were never intrested in him( even if you were you can just lie no biggy ;]) and thats its not your fault he likes you becuz it really isnt your fault tell her you would never betray her like that and that ex's are off limits cuz they are ;]

  21. IMspazztard Says :

    I doubt he's in love with you. Otherwise he would've dumped her for you a LONG time ago.

    Anyhow, you need to decide which is more important: this guy or your best friend. If you like this guy, do you like him enough to lose your best friend over? If not, get over the feelings and tell him no. If you date him, just know you may lose a good friend over it.

    Tell her to stop acting childish. It's not your fault that this guy has feelings for you and dumped her and she shouldn't blame you for it. If anything she should be mad at him.

    It's best to stay out of these situations. Unless you love this guy for real (and i don't mean some bullsh*t high school crap), i wouldn't risk my best friend over it.

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