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I dumped my girlfriend and im real stupid for doin that and i want her back any tips?
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Hi buddy
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex girlfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic-of-making-up-ebook-review
For other great tips on how to get your ex girlfriend back you can also check this article:
http://www.squidoo.com/Getting-Back-Together-After-A-Break-Up
I hope that these tips will be helpful for you.
Good luck!
Depends on if she wants you back.
how did she take it? i think you’ve still got a chance if you’re straight up with her. i wrote an article on the topic a few days ago maybe it’ll help you:
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Get-Your-Ex-Back—Dont-Make-the-Mistakes-90%-of-People-Make!&id=2718454
How long ago was it?
It takes a guided plan. Trying random advice on your own isn’t going to work for you, but here’s a tip on apologies:
It’s what we most want as humans, to be understood. So instead of telling your girlfriend “I’m sorry that I didn’t call you back, BUT I was really busy, and you don’t call me back anyhow” or something along those lines, you should instead replace that with “I’m sorry for not calling you back, you must feel frustrated with me, I was consumed with a project that I had been working on…” etc.
Ahh experience here..
Depends how you broke up. Depends if she moved on, if you dumped her she probably did and be prepared to have a girl weary of your trust work with her be understanding and try and be her friend first either way. sounds like too much work? welcome to us idiot guys we usually leave if it gets this way i have in the past a few times but now im settled down and married and its great
just try and be her friend and be an ear for her then see where it goes
Even if shes moved on, geninely show you care about her and her happiness this is less pressure but shows you actually care about her
You said so yourself you are stupid for dumping her then show her that show her you feel that way either way if she has or hasnt moved on show her you care for her happiness women want this and like it
She may just be "the one who got away" for you which utterly sucks but lessons learned