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I really love her and i thought everything was going great until she dumped me. she’s loved me for 3 years before we dated and now she won’t talk to me for no apparent reason. should i leave her alone and hope she changes her mind or talk to her? i would do anything for her!

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27 Responses to “5th try to get answers! My girlfriend dumped me. How do i get her back!?”

  1. LARRY J7 Says :

    Okay, Sport…
    I’m gonna drop a key in your pocket… don’t waste it… it is like a magic potion… and, I guarantee you results….

    You either go yourself (if you are of age) or send someone (really close like an older buddy)… to a local strip club and find the hottest chick in the joint (she has to be younger and she has to have real class, here).. you make her a deal for cash to "escort you" to some function that you know this special little princess of your’s in going to be at …. you attend this event with this hot little number… and totally ignore "miss perfect"…. I do mean totally ….

    It will not be a full 24 hours until she will find some reason to call or come by… she’ll invent a reason from out of the blue if she has to… and when she does…. be very "cool" and non committal….. and let her know… that you thought she was done with you so you are just simply "moving on"…. It will drive her completely insane !! Guaranteed… any thing that brings women back… is the idea that you can do better than them !!
    She’ll be asking you to take her back within three days of this… and, I’d bet you a buck fifty two on it….
    I’ve watched this tactic work… a hundred times… and, it is foolfproof !!

    Don’t waste this… I don’t hand these out very often at all !!
    Oh… and STOP… being Needy and desperate… it will kill you !!
    AND.. to those that would have a problem with this…. all is fair.. in love and war !! Get over it !!

    ? ////

  2. like a star Says :

    gf

  3. Dan Says :

    stop, you cannot win her back, she found a much larger penis, and she knows your are a little dicked boy

  4. hannah(: Says :

    if she wants to be left alone to think things through, then
    give her space. dont act all stalkerish, cause that isnt attractive.
    i know people say you cant be friends with exes, but you could try,
    just not to soon. make sense? i hope. lol

  5. Barack Hussein Obama Sr Says :

    You’re toast

  6. drake_zula Says :

    I know it’s upsetting but you need to move on.

  7. moon sugar vehk Says :

    you were probably being too nice,… yea it hapens look up cocky/funny its a fairly reasonable method… that and things like anchoring" there all good… i recently had someone break up indirectly through the anchoring technique :)

  8. Methy Says :

    Give her some time then tell her you want to talk

  9. Lost_in_confusion Says :

    if she wants her space give it to her. but give it a while and try talking to her again

  10. C a r o l i n a Says :

    there is a girl out there that well love you for you so she not it move on

    Hope you find her

  11. Katy Says :

    Don’t be pathetic. Grow a pair.

  12. Dani (: Says :

    if she out of the blue dumped you than that means she loves/likes someone else. or you did something wrong.
    just give her sometime, girls hate clingy boys. well at least i know i do.

    if you did either of them then you can’t get her back, sorry.

  13. Halsfield Says :

    i dated a girl for 3.5years and we broke up because of distance and other small fights but its over for good now and you know what? 6months later i found the most amazing girl i have ever met, even better than my last girlfriend and i think she could be the one.

    there is no way to make someone love you if they don’t love you anymore its over, sorry. you can tell her your feelings and maybe change things that caused the breakup, but if its simply she fell out of love with you there’s not a lot you can do. holding a radio over your head on her lawn and playing her favorite song doesnt work in real life, sorry.

  14. ? sucka for ??? Says :

    Have you tried getting back with her?
    if she doesn’t want to she is not going to. so just move on because its really annoying i been through that before.
    try being friends with her and see what happens.

    and don’t keep asking the same question to get the answer your looking for.

  15. stargirl Says :

    talk to her and flatter her (;

  16. Lomi Says :

    Simply put, talk to her. Find out why she left. If it was your fault, apologize and make it up, or try to anyway.

    If it wasn’t, you can’t do anything about it. Sorry man.

  17. snowwolf Says :

    Sounds like you just need to walk away from her. She is not going to come back to you no matter now much you would like it. Don’t get your heart broken again. Find you another nice girl and get on with your life. Good Luck to you.

  18. cupcake Says :

    dont seem pathetic of beg.
    dont whine.

    seem calm and confident and passionate but not in a stocker way.

    bring her flowers.
    bring her food.
    tell her jokes.
    make her laugh
    make her happy
    make it clear that you love her and want to be with her
    tell her you love her and want to be with her
    ask her why she broke up with you then fix yourself
    just keep trying even if it takes months eventually shell see you really do love her

  19. xostopdajacobhatexo68 Says :

    ask her why she won’t talk to you and what’s wrong, if she’s going trough a hard time, help her out and be understanding, try to be her friend first and try to get back together and tell her how you feel. maybe she was unsure of you after a while or it was so long she needed a short break. if she really doesn’t want to go out with you and just wants to be friends, you should understand becasue if you loved her, you would be happy as long as she was happy. hope this helped! :]

  20. Rachie Ann Says :

    The more you try to talk to her the more pressured she’ll feel. My friend went through the same thing and obviously struggled, in the end she told him they probably would have gotten back together if he had just given her the space she needed. I know it’s hard, just give her the space she needs.

  21. Hopefully_in_love Says :

    Hi, look not to be mean but i think you should give her some time to think and reassess everything maybe there is something going on she’s trying to deal with… try being friends if she wants and see what happens from there
    DON’T PUSH THE SUBJECT!

  22. Not a Lame Dame Says :

    Grant, you already know that you cannot MAKE someone love you. It is just not possible.

    Apparently what you thought was "going great" was not going great for her.

    She knows where you are. You should not continue to pursue her if she has given you the ol’ heave ho. That would make you a stalker.

    If she is treating you this poorly (break up with no real explanation), she has checked out emotionally. Prepare to move on and to seek the love and respect you richly deserve. Best of luck!

  23. Les Says :

    Well you should at least have the right to know why you were dumped. As far as getting her back though… I know it’s easy for me to say since I’m not in the situation, but do you really want someone who just dumps you for no reason? Just so she could do it again?

    The only way I would ever even consider taking her back is if she thought you did something really bad (like cheating – maybe heard a rumor) or something else that was not true… Even if that had happened, she still didn’t hear your side of the story.

    In my personal opinion, I think you have wasted 3 years too many on this girl and you deserve better.

  24. Venera Suerte Says :

    Probably you made sadly a thing or said sadly a thing to her.You can call her as soon as.

    I hope you find her as soon as.

  25. Skyman00 Says :

    She probably found somebody else. The best thing to do is completely leave her alone. Start talking to other women or girls (not sure how old you are). Women hate being smothered and they don’t like guys who act weepy or call them up a bunch of times after a break up. The best thing to do is ignore her completely and act as if she doesn’t exist. Avoid contact with her at all costs and never call her or look at her if you see her. If there are woman around and you see her, act very interested in the women, but don’t look back at her to see if she notices. Sometimes women find out that the guy they dumped was a pretty good guy and they took him for granted, but they will never see that if you keep bothering them. The less interest you show in her and more interest you show in others, the better. Be confident and happy. Don’t give her some sad puppy dog looks, if you see her. Act like having her out of your life was the best thing that ever happened to you. You might never get her back and if she does come back you might not want her back at that point. Don’t just pretend to move on in order to get her back. Actually move on! If she comes back, then it will be your choice, on your terms and she will have a lot of explaining to do, to get you back.

  26. Nick R Says :

    truthfully i had this same problem , i know it sucks bauls!!! but you can get her back.how, ok leave her alone ignore her for about a month and she will find out that your inportant to her. try that!! it worked for me. if it dosent for you , whatev your toast man!!

  27. Tyler R Says :

    Go getem Tiger!!!

    Uhm no… Okay well if you don’t know what you did, just go up to her and say I’m so sorry about what I did.
    Don’t Say you know, just act like you do.. Its worth a shot

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